Myself: No, you don't.
Me: Okay, I don't. But I have my doubts about this.
Myself: You can't expect to be a master right off the start. As with anything, when you start off learning something new, you're going to really suck at it.
Me: Jee, thanks for the words of encouragement!
Myself: Can you ride a bike?
Me: Everyone can ride a bike.
Myself: Everyone can realize their enlightenment. Just like learning to ride your bike took practice, so will learning to realize your enlightenment. Some children take longer than other children to learn to ride their bike, and some people will take longer to learn to realize their enlightenment. It just takes practice.
A professional athlete has put in countless hours practicing his sport in order to get to that level, and continues to practice in order to play at his best. When we engage in Spiritual practice, we are practicing how to play our best at Life Itself, so when we look at it this way, Spiritual practice is not really apart from anything else that we do. We can't practice being Spiritual while living any more than we can practice being wet while swimming.
None the less, as the saying goes "practice makes perfect," (maybe "with practice perfection is realized" works better here, but that's pretty long to be a catch phrase) so it is good to set aside a time each day to devote wholeheartedly the harmonizing of your body and mind. The easiest way in which to achieve this harmony is to simply sit in a comfortable manner in a quiet and still environment, close your eyes, and still your mind. A still body does not distract the mind and a still mind does not distract the body.
Do not try to stop your thoughts, but rather just observe them and let them run their course. If you find yourself grabbing onto your thoughts and running with them, just let them go again. Keep doing this as many times as you find yourself losing focus. Remember that when you start thinking about things, you have lost focus. When you think on things, you are focused. When your focus is on your thoughts, you are dealing with your concepts about Reality. When you are focused on Reality and no thoughts arise, you are dealing with Reality.
Me: How long should I do this for?
Myself: As long as you feel you should do it for. Just let your thoughts and actions happen without any attempt to control them or stop them. Quite often it is beneficial to focus on your breathing as a way to let go of your thoughts. When you feel that it is time to get up, it is time to get up. Do not fight against your thoughts or try to do anything with your thoughts. Just simply be and observe.
It is important to let your thoughts come and go of their own accord. Remember that all of existence is perfectly balanced and that any attempt to balance It is counter productive. If you drop a stone into a still lake, it will make waves. That's fine. The waves will become still of their own accord. Any attempt to "help" the waves become still will only cause more waves.
Me: If I "let my thoughts and actions happen without any attempt to control or stop them" all of the time, what the heck is going to stop me from doing terribly evil things?
Myself: What makes you think you would do terribly evil things?
Me: Well if there is nothing there to control my thoughts and actions, I could do anything I wanted.
Myself: That sounds like freedom to me. Wouldn't that be a good thing?
Me: What if I wanted to rape, steal, and murder?
Myself: Have you ever wanted to staple your eyelids to your eyes?
Me: Can't say as I have.
Myself: Why not?
Me: For some reason it's just never crossed my mind.
Myself: Would it be safe to say that if the thoughts of rape, stealing, and murder never crossed your mind, you'd never want to do those things either?
Me: I suppose so, but then wouldn't it also follow that if the thoughts of Love and compassion never crossed my mind, I'd never want to do those things either.
Myself: If all you want is to be present, Love and compassion will naturally and effortlessly flow from you. If all you want is to be present, you don't need anything other than what you have, so you can give it all away. When one is entirely focused on the experience of the present, one experience is just as wonderful (full of wonder) as the next. If not having sex is just as wonderful as having sex, why rape anyone? If not owning a fancy car is just as wonderful as owning a fancy car, why steal one? If my Life is as wonderful as his, and if his is as wonderful and as valuable as mine, why take his?
Me: If drinking kool-aid is just as wonderful as drinking a fine wine, why drink the fine wine? You can't tell me that kool-aid tastes just as good as fine wine.
Myself: Fine wine and kool-aid taste different. One may describe one as tasting better than the other, but to an enlightened person the experience of tasting the one is just as "good" as the experience of tasting the other one.
When one focuses on the experience itself rather than the description of the experience, (the) All experience turns out to be "good." Seeing things as they are brings out the "best" of everything. For example, if you were to experience both the wine as it is and the kool-aid as it is, the experience of the kool-aid would be as "good" as the experience of the wine, as opposed to the experience of wine being as "poor" as the experience of the kool-aid. If you were to see everyone as they truly are, without definition or bias, you would Love everyone equally. Your Love for the guy who just screwed you out of $10,000.00 in a business deal would equal the Love you have for your child or your spouse. The Love you feel for the crook would go "up" to the Love you feel for your child.
When God created the universe, He described It as "good." "Good" is Reality's inherent nature. To experience Realty in its inherent state is to experience All as "good."
Me: If everything is just as good as everything else, why do we do one thing instead of another? If a pit bull chewing on my leg is just as good as it not chewing on my leg, why would I try to make it stop chewing on my leg?
Myself: We don't need a motivation to live our Life. The goal of Life is not to chase after pleasure and run from pain, the goal of Life is to just be happy.
Pleasure and pain flow along one's Life as naturally as a river flows down a hill. A river flows around the boulder and wears away the sandy ground. It does this naturally. We could try to explain it's behaviour in terms such as "choice," or "force" or "better", but "naturally" seems to sit most comfortably.
It would be quite natural to try to make the pit bull stop chewing on your leg. It would be quite unnatural to worry about the possibility of pit bulls chewing on your leg, or to keep reliving the experience of the pit bull chewing on your leg. When we talk of enlightenment or of Spiritual Life, what we are talking about is simply doing what comes about naturally. When you walk, the act of walking comes naturally. There is no need to "think" about how to lift up your left leg, move it forward, and then put it down, then lift up your right leg, move it forward, and then put it down. When your body is in perfect harmony with the universe, there is no need to "think" about anything that you do in your Life any more than you have to "think" about walking. When you are operating from Spirit, your entire Life becomes as natural and effortless as walking.
Me: Aren't there times where one is required to think? In this day and age where so much information is being transferred, don't I need to be able to process this information in order to function on a day-to-day basis? If everybody just suddenly stopped thinking altogether, our entire society would fall into chaos.
Myself: Think when thinking is necessary. What one needs to think upon, one should think upon. What one does not need to think upon, one need not think upon. What we are doing when we pay attention and act from Spirit, is we are doing away with extraneous thought. That is all.
Whatever you do, do it with attention. When you are doing your job, do your job with attention. When you are cooking supper (and while eating it), cook it (and eat it) with attention. When you are with your family, give your family your full attention.
You will do your job better, and you will enjoy your job more. You will eat healthier suppers, and they will taste better. You will be a better father and husband, and your whole family will be healthier and happier.